What attracts women to men? What do they look for in a man? It is a question as old as the art of seduction. Millions of men out there after having spent long and lonely nights, after a refusal or a disappointment, are still reflecting on this question.
The answer? Well, lucky for you, one of the things at the top of the list is being a man of quality. What are these qualities? I will describe the most important characteristics that all women look for in a man. A few days ago I was talking to a friend about an appointment he had just had with a very sexy girl. This is a girl who has attended several men who held positions of high prestige: football players, CEOs, bankers of the world … the list goes on.
And yet … here it is … sitting in a quiet café sipping a latte with a friend who had none of these prestigious awards. So why was she out with him? Because he had something much more important. This girl spent most of the time talking about why she downloaded some of the most prominent men in her city.
What attracts women to men
The money is not equal to the domain or a high level of skills with women. The money will surely help you to involve women, and if they are materialistic, it will help you keep up with them. But, if they are not particularly materialistic, and seek the legitimate value of being together in other ways, these will abandon the rich like potato sacks.
And that’s what happened to these unfortunate poor on this girl’s list. So, before you start throwing in what the fair sex wants, it’s important to understand what women do not want, and make sure you reduce and get rid of these qualities.
Now that we have discovered what most women detest let’s take a look at the qualities that women look for in men. Let me start by saying that as we all know, there are no two women exactly alike. However, there is certainly a foundation on these listed qualities that all women, regardless of their particular tastes, generally appreciate. So here are the qualities that women look for in a man:
Smart and Independence
A woman wants a strong man who can live her life. Men are born to be leaders. And as a leader, you must learn to rely on yourself and your male skills to be the rock in a woman’s life. They appreciate the ability of a man to be self-sufficient, mature and the intention to live together. Women want men who are bold and adventurous: men who are not afraid to pack and move halfway across the world in a moment.
When it comes to women of all levels of attraction, you do not have to be smart; you do not have to be particularly nice; you do not have to be rich, but we need to be confident! But when I talk about trust, I do not just mean walking around with my swollen chest and talking loudly like some kind of Gaston. This kind of blind trust does not equate to success.
What I mean by security is having the certainty of who you are. My friend has never been afraid of being himself to the maximum degree. She is more at home in her “dress” than many of the celebrities seen in magazines. Furthermore, it always has:
- Provides elite visual contact;
- It makes good use of pauses;
- Use social pressure;
- Return the conversation to the girl;
- Adopt the right amount of mystery.
I am a lover of fun, a profound conversation, an entrepreneur-dancer-philosopher-traveler-writer, and I am an absolute master of it. Does it work on every girl? Not. But why should I want it? What I do not understand about beginners in the game of seduction is their desire to attract every girl. They never want to be rejected or failed. But do you want to attract every girl? This means attracting:
- All crazy;
- Drug addicts and drug addicts;
- Girls who tend to go with a lot of kids etc.
- Think about it!
And to a less extreme extent, if you are a boy who is passionate about online games and paintball, do you want a super-hippie who is constantly trying to educate you about people’s “golden”? Do you want a girl who is not your type? Could you want a hasty evening with a girl like that? But what is most important is compatibility and sustainability.
The reason why kids want ” every girl ” to give it attention is because they just want to be loved in general. They imagine that girls smile and laugh at everything they say. They imagine girls only as potential partners. But you can not impose your vision of a girl. Moreover, once you have gained more experience, you will learn that many women who are attracted to you will not go any further. They will only expect you to stand up and push forward to seduce them. I want to attract girls who are interested in the things I’m excited about.
This should be obvious, but many men in the West have learned to contain their sexuality from the many cultural influences of our society. But despite what the media could tell you, or what women themselves could tell you, women men.sexy men. Women love men who are not afraid to show off their lustful/sensual side and drive a girl crazy by the accumulation of sex. So learn to be a sexy man and join the minority of men that women respect to know what women want.
Women often complain about men who “do not understand”. These men go around fumbling through social interactions and fail to grasp the hidden message in a conversation with a woman. As such, women appreciate men who are socially adept: men who know how to listen, how to be comforting and how to communicate with them on their terms.
One of the saddest events in the world is not the death of a man, but a man who lives without purpose. The great paradox of the game of seduction is the fact that the easiest way to get women is to make sure they are never your top priority.
Should you approach women? Should you compliment and flirt with them? That goes without saying. Should you seduce them? Stupid question. But should you make them your number 1 priority? Never!
There are certainly some people in the game of seduction who aim to have many girls as if it were a job. Well, consider this: let’s put the case that you found the girl of your dreams. You frequent it for a year and then you end up marrying it. Then? What is the purpose of your life now that you have conquered the woman of your dreams? Seducing women is not a purpose of life. It’s a great advantage to help you achieve a bigger goal on your one trip to this world.
- Giving your time to rebuild poor communities is a goal.
- Creating art or music is a purpose.
- The companies of Masterminding are a purpose.
- Directing a movement is a goal.
The women look for guys that have a purpose because they want to build a life with someone who has higher aspirations which can be part of it somehow. Perhaps he will join you on your way to accomplish your purpose; maybe it will support you while watching you reach your goal. But in any case, it will be difficult for you to find a woman with different values if you do not understand who you are and you’re not trying to find out why you’re here.
I know that there is a belief among men, namely that girls go only with boys who are assholes. Being an asshole is just another way of saying you have control. Whether you are exposing or attracting a woman to get involved, the asshole always has control in terms of what it communicates to other people. That said: someone who is in control and genuinely cares about others is considered “passionate.” And heat is what women really want.
The women want a man who will not be pushed by other people but treat people with care and empathy, and this is especially true for lovers of his life. They want a man who knows how to relate to people, and they want a man who can tell their friends to make them forgive.
It is not particularly difficult to avoid behaviors or habits that keep women away. And it is also very easy to think about improving your qualities that make you more attractive. Remember women want men: Independent, Confident, Sexy, Sociable, with a goal, passionate, imperfect. Like anything in life, knowledge is power. If you understand what you are aiming for and know what you need to do to get there, you will inevitably find success over time. Hey, you could even find the girl of your dreams! Catch the moment.