You have two options: you keep it as it is and live with it, or you ask for a new one, one that works well and is not full of defects like the one you have now.
Do you know why your life sucks?
Let’s see how to choose the best possible life for you.
There are three factors you need to check when choosing a new one, otherwise, you risk finding yourself with the same problems you have today.
- Are you the way you want to be?
- Are things going as you like?
- Is your relationship with others how you would like it?
From experience, there are these three dimensions.
When they go wrong, even one, we come to think that our life is a disaster.
The relationship with ourselves, the relationship with the life we live, and with others.
Now let’s face them all and I’ll explain how to get you a new and happy life.
1. You are not what you want
Aspect number one: are you the way you want to be?
We probably have some problems here, otherwise, you wouldn’t think so badly about your life.
Now I’ll explain, for each element, how to change it, so you will see that we arrange your life piece by piece.
- All negative emotions come from fear
- A personal journey, or when your life is a failure
- Physical Appearance: Your body sucks
2. Things are not going as you would like: it is not fair!
Aspect number two: your life sucks because things don’t go the way you want them to.
We’ll talk about relationships with others later, here I want to show you how to change the situations you live and that seem uncontrollable, so much so that you think that life, in addition to sucking, is also unfair.
There are three types of situations you may be dealing with:
- Those that depend on you, on what you do.
- Those that only partially depends on you and what you do.
- Those that don’t depend on you, whatever you do.
In the first case, that is, if your life sucks because you don’t like some situations, which depend on you, the only thing you can do is act differently.
3. People are not what you want
In my experience, the more we don’t find people who know how to understand, welcome, and love us, the more we will think that our life sucks.
Remember, it depends on what you measure and how you do it.
People behave badly, betraying trust, acting selfishly, not giving a damn about your feelings when it suits them.
People are bad, if they can get something for themselves, even if it hurts you, they will do it, regardless of how you are going to be.
Reality is like this, it’s hard to find someone who really accepts you, maybe there is no true friendship, surely it’s hard to think that a love story lasts a lifetime.
How much do you believe in these things?
I believed it enough, at least some.
I thought people were bad, maybe I didn’t consider them all selfish but almost.
Then it depends, in the moments when we are angry or disappointed everything appears negative, people seem worse. What can you do?
Let’s start with the most obvious thing: the behavior of others is not something you can control.
Trying to manage other people is the best way to feel bad.
Everyone will do exactly what they want, always.
The sooner you understand this, the better.
However, it does not mean that people are bad, quite the opposite.
Imagine you see a cat on the street. He is small, he is cold and sick, maybe he even has some wounds on his legs.
You approach to pick him up and take him to a vet and he scratches you as soon as you reach out.
You get angry?
Or do you think it is normal for him to react like that since he is afraid?
Each of us is equal to the kitten: we are afraid and we react to defend ourselves. As?